Post by VivianMIT on Jan 23, 2022 8:30:51 GMT
An "I love you" in a doorway, a "goodbye" in an airport.
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п»їThe most intense moments of our lives often take place at the most varied thresholds: that doorway where we were surprised with a kiss, that airport where an "I love you, see you soon" hurts more than a wound or that station where we await the arrival of someone special, remain forever imprinted in our memory.
Our daily life is inhabited by this type of physical thresholds where, in some way, a high emotional charge is concentrated. They are routes of passage, crossroads where the affective bonds we maintain with someone are obliged to separate or to meet again after a time of absence.
"I leave you with your life, with your people, your work, your sunset and your sunsets."
-Mario Benedetti
These are moments of all or nothing, when it is often necessary to take a risk, to be honest, to be brave and to take the step so that the person feels supported by your arrival or takes a part of ourselves in his or her heart. Human beings have always been somewhat nomadic, we all know that, but now, perhaps, we are a little more so.
The social and economic context is forcibly inviting us to explore other maps, other scenarios where we can broaden our perspectives, where we can recycle ourselves, discover, travel, experiment, survive in the end... These necessary vital impulses also imply many farewells, perhaps too many, as well as the longed-for reunions that set in motion once again the nostalgic air that never seems to stop.
The physical thresholds are like silent witnesses to the magic of our lives. These "goodbye" scenarios are enclaves of great psychological and emotional interest that we would like to delve into with you.
The "I love you" in airportsAirports are tremendously fascinating scenarios from a psychological point of view. They are chaotic, immense and motley. As soon as you arrive, you have the clear sensation of being lost, the rush is urgent and amidst the chaos of suitcases, coats and tickets, we try to use our mental GPS to find our way around. However, it is a place where emotions cohabit in an intense, cyclical and permanent way. It is enough to turn off our gaze of nervous traveler to turn on that of serene observer to discover many things.
The "I love yous" are not too abundant, but the looks that say it all are. Tears are common, trembling eyes that refuse to say goodbye, as well as the "I can't wait to have you with me again" face. In turn, there are plenty of parents eager to hug their children again. And the grandmothers, who despite never having set foot in an airport, make a place for themselves with the solvency of any other to say goodbye to their grandchild who is going to work far, far away in a country they can't even pronounce and from where they hope he or she will return soon.
Airports are almost like the nervous exit from a mother's womb, a threshold full of intense, sometimes conflicting sensations that lead us to the unknown or, if not, bring us back to our roots. At the same time, they also become spaces of long waits, where one is drawn by the emotions of others to reflect on one's own.
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The emotional enclaves of our livesCarl Rogers reminded us through his theories that people must assume who we are through the experiences we live every day. We are functional, creative and, above all, emotional beings. If we think about it, we will realize that each one of us spends our lives crossing thresholds, taking trains, traveling in cars, in planes, entering the homes of new friends, setting foot in new workplaces, in new spaces where we can enjoy leisure, relaxation, our afternoons of consumerism and enjoyment.
"When you know you are in your place and in your world, the next thing is to take the plunge and be brave."
At each of these physical thresholds, new or old emotions are concentrated. It is a cycle that repeats itself like the classic uroboros, that sacred serpent that eats its own tail and represents the continuity of life itself and, at the same time, the beauty of our personal cycle. However, there is one aspect that we must be very clear about: in these thresholds also happen a great part of our opportunities, those that we must not let escape.
A farewell is a direct entrance to uncertainty. We do not know if that goodbye at the airport can be transformed into a "see you forever". Nor do we know if the distance will allow us to maintain that relationship with the same illusion or if we will have another opportunity to declare ourselves, to say "I love you" to someone who is torn between doubt, hesitation and shyness.
The best time for anything is always NOW, and the physical thresholds are undoubtedly a direct invitation to sincerity, to revelation and to the courage of the present in the face of the uncertainty of the future. If life is like a magical uroboros and a perpetual cycle of welcomes and farewells, let love always be the one who offers meaning to this magical movement.
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buymodafinil
п»їThe most intense moments of our lives often take place at the most varied thresholds: that doorway where we were surprised with a kiss, that airport where an "I love you, see you soon" hurts more than a wound or that station where we await the arrival of someone special, remain forever imprinted in our memory.
Our daily life is inhabited by this type of physical thresholds where, in some way, a high emotional charge is concentrated. They are routes of passage, crossroads where the affective bonds we maintain with someone are obliged to separate or to meet again after a time of absence.
"I leave you with your life, with your people, your work, your sunset and your sunsets."
-Mario Benedetti
These are moments of all or nothing, when it is often necessary to take a risk, to be honest, to be brave and to take the step so that the person feels supported by your arrival or takes a part of ourselves in his or her heart. Human beings have always been somewhat nomadic, we all know that, but now, perhaps, we are a little more so.
The social and economic context is forcibly inviting us to explore other maps, other scenarios where we can broaden our perspectives, where we can recycle ourselves, discover, travel, experiment, survive in the end... These necessary vital impulses also imply many farewells, perhaps too many, as well as the longed-for reunions that set in motion once again the nostalgic air that never seems to stop.
The physical thresholds are like silent witnesses to the magic of our lives. These "goodbye" scenarios are enclaves of great psychological and emotional interest that we would like to delve into with you.
The "I love you" in airportsAirports are tremendously fascinating scenarios from a psychological point of view. They are chaotic, immense and motley. As soon as you arrive, you have the clear sensation of being lost, the rush is urgent and amidst the chaos of suitcases, coats and tickets, we try to use our mental GPS to find our way around. However, it is a place where emotions cohabit in an intense, cyclical and permanent way. It is enough to turn off our gaze of nervous traveler to turn on that of serene observer to discover many things.
The "I love yous" are not too abundant, but the looks that say it all are. Tears are common, trembling eyes that refuse to say goodbye, as well as the "I can't wait to have you with me again" face. In turn, there are plenty of parents eager to hug their children again. And the grandmothers, who despite never having set foot in an airport, make a place for themselves with the solvency of any other to say goodbye to their grandchild who is going to work far, far away in a country they can't even pronounce and from where they hope he or she will return soon.
Airports are almost like the nervous exit from a mother's womb, a threshold full of intense, sometimes conflicting sensations that lead us to the unknown or, if not, bring us back to our roots. At the same time, they also become spaces of long waits, where one is drawn by the emotions of others to reflect on one's own.
You might be interested in...
It's never too late to give our emotions a chance
Perhaps you were not taught how to relate to your emotions, but it is never too late to listen to them and to be able to intelligently disguise them.
The emotional enclaves of our livesCarl Rogers reminded us through his theories that people must assume who we are through the experiences we live every day. We are functional, creative and, above all, emotional beings. If we think about it, we will realize that each one of us spends our lives crossing thresholds, taking trains, traveling in cars, in planes, entering the homes of new friends, setting foot in new workplaces, in new spaces where we can enjoy leisure, relaxation, our afternoons of consumerism and enjoyment.
"When you know you are in your place and in your world, the next thing is to take the plunge and be brave."
At each of these physical thresholds, new or old emotions are concentrated. It is a cycle that repeats itself like the classic uroboros, that sacred serpent that eats its own tail and represents the continuity of life itself and, at the same time, the beauty of our personal cycle. However, there is one aspect that we must be very clear about: in these thresholds also happen a great part of our opportunities, those that we must not let escape.
A farewell is a direct entrance to uncertainty. We do not know if that goodbye at the airport can be transformed into a "see you forever". Nor do we know if the distance will allow us to maintain that relationship with the same illusion or if we will have another opportunity to declare ourselves, to say "I love you" to someone who is torn between doubt, hesitation and shyness.
The best time for anything is always NOW, and the physical thresholds are undoubtedly a direct invitation to sincerity, to revelation and to the courage of the present in the face of the uncertainty of the future. If life is like a magical uroboros and a perpetual cycle of welcomes and farewells, let love always be the one who offers meaning to this magical movement.
You might be interested in...
To love is the apprenticeship of our life
Leo Buscaglia in his "Reflections on love" gives us the opportunity to stop and learn other ways of loving, starting from the meaning of love.
Preventing childhood obesity is to ensure the health of our children.
Emotional distress: the undefinable paralyzing fear
False altruism: the narcissist's ambush.
4632b74